tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7750563513512612307.post7674102734856822938..comments2022-05-09T23:23:22.350-07:00Comments on What do you mean by sex: What DO you mean by sex?Unknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7750563513512612307.post-58859797397839027162012-02-21T08:55:44.574-08:002012-02-21T08:55:44.574-08:00Hi Hanna, wonderful - yes, please use anything I s...Hi Hanna, wonderful - yes, please use anything I said, and I would love to read your research when it's completed.Trixhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02892086097855620183noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7750563513512612307.post-36102372253872062202012-02-21T06:37:41.382-08:002012-02-21T06:37:41.382-08:00Hey.
My name is Hanna E. Fjeld.
I am a bachelor s...Hey.<br />My name is Hanna E. Fjeld. <br />I am a bachelor student at the psychology department at NTNU (Norwegian University of science and technology). <br />This spring I am working on my bachelor theses about sensuality and sexuality, with a focus on ”how love relationships and intimacy is experienced by asexual individuals”. <br />I really like how you describe your experiences in your blog, and especially how you write about your view of sex, and intimacy in this piece. <br />Could I use it in my research? <br />And if you are interesting in answering a few question about how it is to be asexual, please contact me at my email: hanna_ef@hotmail.com<br />You will be 100% anonymous, and I would be extremely grateful for your help, on either answering questions, or just letting me use this piece.<br />Regards<br />Hanna.H.Ehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18050076279082843771noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7750563513512612307.post-23614562009399594212010-04-17T00:13:34.945-07:002010-04-17T00:13:34.945-07:00you have no idea how much this post means to me. i...you have no idea how much this post means to me. i feel the exact same way. thank you so much, i feel so much less alone in this thinking.Ashnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7750563513512612307.post-79969488294996801842010-03-28T10:33:00.276-07:002010-03-28T10:33:00.276-07:00I love your definition... sounds like you've b...I love your definition... sounds like you've been reading my mind... the hard part is finding someone with whom to share this experience.. who is not going to push for sex.. who doesn't treat that kind of 'intimacy' as a pathway to 'sex', but rather as a complete and meaningful experience in its own right..Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7750563513512612307.post-42011280222718541332010-03-26T08:25:11.839-07:002010-03-26T08:25:11.839-07:00Sure, thanks for asking! :)
So my understanding of...Sure, thanks for asking! :)<br />So my understanding of your question is that you're wondering what physical intimacy looks like for me, externally?<br />It CAN be extreme cuddling, it can be kissing, it can be caressing, it can be just touching and feeling energy move, it can be just gazing, it can be holding, it can be speaking, it can be listening, it can be holding hands, it can be massaging, it can be rough and tumble play, it can be classical intercourse if that's what feels appropriate (I don't have a problem with it, I just don't feel it as having special significance).<br />The point is, the external form of how intimacy is being expressed takes a backseat to listening to each other attentively and moving with whatever interaction wants to happen.Trixhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02892086097855620183noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7750563513512612307.post-5072915141954926962010-03-26T05:19:49.805-07:002010-03-26T05:19:49.805-07:00So it's kind of like... extreme cuddling?
(so...So it's kind of like... extreme cuddling?<br /><br />(sorry if that seems reductionist, I'm just trying to relate the emotions you're describing to something familiar)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com